Comfort pt.2

Last week we talked about feeling comfortable in your own skin. The model we had advertized was obviously a naked Plus size model. As I stated before, most of would not have dared let anyone take a picture of us like that; however, it is important that we find comfort in our bodies and what our bodies look like. Learn our bodies and every nick and cranny that is throughout it. When I talk to people about the blog and joining the blog, some people make comments to me like, “Girl, I plan to lose all this” or “Oh...that’s nice but I don’t think being this size is something I wanna promote”

Look ladies, nobodies advertizing being fat, out of shape, or un-healthy…Flaunt UR Curves are against all those things; but until you get to your weight goal…learn to love yourself just as you are. What?... you can’t be attractive because you’re over weight….some of us will never…EVER be small…sorry to buss your bubble, but it is a fact. I’ve been a plus size woman all of my life, and though I may have had my own discomforts  about my own weight, I had to learn how to make myself look and feel great…I LEARNED TO LOVE ME. This is what it’s all about…feeling SEXY, having SELF CONFIDENCE in yourself and how you look, and being REALISTIC about YOUR SIZE! Work hard to lose that weight, change the way you eat and how much you eat….but most importantly be HEALTHY and LOVE YOURSELF!!!

Moving on, getting to know your body…hum, where should I start. View the picture at the bottom, let’s talk being comfortable with your breast, boobs, tah tah’s, melons, or as my mom calls them newni jugs…lol. Most plus size woman are known for having very large breast, most men are known for loving that…HA! However, I see SO MANY plus size women who buy these weak bra’s without really thinking about what their breast are going to look like in them…and there is a medium.

You don’t want to have the cone breast that poke people in the eye or stab them in the chest every time they want to give you a hug. At the same time, you don’t want to have the saggy breast where every time you take a step they flop too and fro like an elephant trunk. KNOW YOUR BODY! If you have very large breast…don’t waste your money on flimsy bra’s, because it is exactly what I said A WASTE OF YOUR MONEY! Save your money and take the time to find out where you can get bra’s that will sit your girls up. I have a friend who has to get her bra’s specially made…but when you see her, you would never think her girls were that big. Her bra’s are beautiful, comfortable, and keep her back from hurting (which is very important!) Know how your back is shaped and what bra’s would be most comfortable for you as well as make you look fabulous!

I took the liberty of looking up some websites that may help you out some. Of course there’s Ashley Stewards and Lane Bryant, but also visit http://www.brasthatfit.net/bras.html, they go up to a size JJ…whoo!

We’re gonna continue talking about comfort and knowing our bodies for the next couple of weeks. We want to cover all aspects of the woman’s body and knowing our bodies.

Remember…you are so beautiful…with yo thick self!

Sexy, Self Confident, and realistic Self Sizing…now that’s what’s up!!!