In last week’s blog we talked about not only finding comfort in yourself, but comfort in your bras. I really hope that some of the tips I left for you were helpful. This week is going to be a simple one...at least for some of us; we're going to talk about finding comfort in your clothes as a whole.
I have seen some of the most horrifying appearances...especially in the summer time. Ladies we're so busy trying to be sexy that we look like if we drink water, all of our clothes are going to explode into a billion pieces. I stated in last week’s blog that sexy doesn't always mean short, tight, revealing. When I interview men on their opinion of "what is sexy" to them, many of them are very graphic...especially when it comes to us thick ones. Plus size woman catch it the worse because we are either one extreme or the other. We are either wearing sheets for clothing, or our clothing is two sizes too small.
Part of looking sexy is not only finding comfort in your weight, your body structure, and your natural beauty; but also finding clothes that compliment your curves and bring out your positive aspects. Please view the photo at the very bottom of the page....SHE IS GORGEOUS!
Take another look at her, do you see any breast? Booty out? Are her clothes extra tight? NO NO NO NO NO NO NO! She is all covered up and is super sexy. She’s showing off a little bit of arm, and very little bosom. The great thing about the top she is wearing...anybody can wear it and look just as sexy...big or little boobs, size 16 or size 26 (you can find this top at www.lanebryant.com ). Though she is not really what I would consider a plus size model, she is a great example of what sexiness can be without being over revealing. Whether we want to admit it or not, it is a fact that some items of our bodies we just shouldn't show as plus size women. There is being Confident and then there is being Crazy. I for one don't see a problem with showing stretch marks...I know body builders with stretch marks and unless you’re going to spend money to get rid of them...get use to them. However, showing dimples (the ones on your rear), letting saggy breast hang out, and allowing belly fat to flop over your clothes...YEAH...SO NOT COOL. Which brings us back to knowing your body. You can't be SEXY if you're not SELF CONFIDENT about how you look...and you can't be SELF CONFIDENT about how you look if you’re not being REALISTIC about your SIZE and the way your body has been designed.
Gotta run, we'll talk more next week about comfort. Please spread the word about Flaunt UR Curves...YOU KNOW YOU KNOW WOMEN WHO NEED TO READ THESE BLOGS!. So DON'T SLEEP ON THIS! Let’s change the way the world looks at plus size women.
Remember as always, You’re are beautiful...with yo thick self!
Sexy, Self confident, and realistic Self Sizing...that's what's up!
To'Nia Ruby
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