Weight of the World

Hey everybody, thanks for stopping by Flaunt UR Curves!

Today, let's deal with those of us who haven't always been plus size woman. I can hear some of you saying, "well...what's your definition of plus size?"

To'Nia's definition of Plus Size: A woman who cannot comfortably fit into a size 14(not wide either) without sucking in their gut or without 7lbs of flab hanging over their jeans.

Once you have reached this point you are OFFICALLY a PLUS SIZE woman....yes, I need you to get over it and accept it (or loose enough weight to get back into a size 12 or smaller.)

It's not always easy to accept that you can't fit your favorite dress, or put on those skin tight jeans anymore. You want to still feel sexy and wanted, you want those eye's to still follow you as you walk pass. Some of you may still be trying to where the same clothes that you could ONCE fit, and though you may still catch some men's eye's following you...some men will follow anything that shakes. Let me PULL you out of denial...IT DOESN'T FIT ANYMORE, IT DOESN'T LOOK GOOD! TAKE IT OFF!!!!!!!!!!

LOL....seriously, it's ok to admit you've gained a couple of pounds and you are now a plus size woman. Pass those clothes on and start experiencing the new you. Does this mean you have the right to sit around and be fat and lazy??? NO WAY!!! You need to exercise, eat healthy, and find your current and correct size. Go to a Lane Bryant, Ashley Stewarts, or some other plus size fashion stores. Ask them to measure your breast, your waist, your butt...find out what clothes works for you and what doesn't. You are still SEXY GIRL... you just have a little more to love.

Just a couple tips for you....a girdle can be your best friend; never (EVER) ware spandex, stockings with holes in them usually don't work for big legs, stay away from clothing with multiple flowers, and get a good bra that with sit your girl's UP!!!!

That's all for today....when you look in the mirror tell yourself...

Sexy, Self Confident, and realistic Self Sizing! That's what's up!